You sound like you are in the same sitch as me, seeing a light at the end of the tunnel, but still not sure how long it is.
I know (from personal experience) that now you want to start running to the end, but I think that the best thing to do is ..... slow it down.
As ROOT quite rightly said, work on being the best friend and confidante. From that, the feelings will slowly come back.
There is a brilliant story somewhere on this sight about a castle and a picnic. Everytime I feel that I want to run, I imagine that and slow down again.
