God Bless you Kimmie Lee! I was looking for you on the boards and am so said I have found you here. I wanted things to work out for you. But if H is not in "that place", then I wish you peace as you deal with the fall out. I don't know what will happen to H but as you already know, 90% of Affairs do NOT end happily ever after. Whatever garbage he brought into your M he will bring into the new relationship too. He will have to learn on his own to deal with his own mistakes. I just pray you have the strength to help heal yourself in this time. Thinking of you........