CONTACTING OW/OW'S HUSBAND

[kikidee]

Jen_Jam - I'm curious...while you were focusing on yourself and making yourlsef your best you, did you do anything at all in relation to you M? I am in the process of bettering myself. I started that before I jumped in with both feel to "fix" our M and before I found out about OW. I went back to work in the fall after being home since my first was born, I've lost a significant amount of weight that I've carried far too long - and continue to do so, I've started to exercise more.... That's something that makes me mad and a reason that it's been so hard to take the advice of working on yourself without wondering "what else do I have to do?!".

I appreciate the thoughts of people like you and Zebra, who have been to hell and are on their way or have made it back.

Ok - now I'm really going to bed.