Bruce, sorry you are still here. Not sure what advice to offer you.
My pastor told me the other day, when you are not sure, then pray. It will come to you. The praying he told me to do was rote prayer - like the rosary. Almost like meditating. Just empty your mind. Don't think about it directly. No analysis. Just feel it. Just wait for the feeling and it will come to you.
Maybe not in 10 minutes, maybe not in 10 hours or 10 days. Maybe it will take 10 months. But the answer will come to you. IF you are quiet and patient enough.
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