Hi Ingrid,

I see two positives in your posts.

Many of us would be happy to be able to ML to our spouses. Here you have the opportunity to do some DB'ing. Is there anything you can do to have him connect with you?

The date you have planned is a baby step forward. He's willing to still go out with you. ACT as IF and laught at his stupid jokes, smile at him while you gaze in his eyes.

You have movement you just can't see it. I found the solution goals thread has helped alot. You may want to give it a try.

Fixer