He sent me an email yesterday - a bunch of pictures of mad cats being forced to have baths. A very strange thing for him to send (I'm thinking it was probably meant for the kids) and even to have in the first place. I'm thinking it's from a woman, but he deleted all that information. Nice thing to get on Vday, an email that another woman sent to your H.
Mmmm, that stinks! and you know, you may be right. You may be right that the email came from a woman. It seems likely. And, you may be right in your suspiscion that he is actually involved with another woman. You may be right. And, you may be wrong.
There could be a hundred sources for the email. One of them is that it came from a woman he's involved with. There are 99 other possibilities. Do you know which is the real truth? I don't think so.
What can you do about it anyway? Nuthin. It totally stinks that you are in this place, that you have doubts and you are not even in a position to voice them to him. It totally stinks. But... it is what it is. What can you do about it? Maybe the best thing is to let it go.
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I'm having one of those 'don't think I can do this' days. I can't ask where that email came from, I can't talk about how difficult I'm finding it not knowing where we stand, I just have to keep everything inside and keep moving, doing all the stuff that must be done. Makes such a huge difference to have a place to vent a bit - thanks for listening.
Vent away, baby. But ya know, ... there's nothing to be done about it.
I, for one, think you can do it. Chin up!
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....
