Tonight was a pleasant change - Lots of stuff going on, but at least W is happy and talking to me again.
W IM'd me this morning asking what the plan for tonight was. She was anxious about spending some time with D because she hasn't seen her for a couple of days. We talked for a little while, but then I just left her alone for the rest of the day. I picked up W from her house and we went to get D from daycare together - Talked a little on the way, but not a whole lot. After we got D, W was really quiet, which made for a fun 1hr drive to her parents... D was left at the ILs for her overnight, so W and I went on our way to figure out dinner and stuff. I had plans in mind for a particular restaurant, but W felt she was under dressed, so we ended up going to the mall for a little while, then we ended up at Red Lobster. Not horrible, but exactly what I was going for (I wanted something a little more unique and creative, but I left the choice to W). W talked a lot on the ride back from her parents and through dinner. I can't even keep track of most of it - Lots was about D, W's own fears, some was about OM, some was about her friends at work. Quite a mixture of things. We laughed, joked, had some serious conversations (mostly about D), but things went really well.
Some random things that I can't make sentences out of:
1) W told me that people at work have been making comments about her and OM. A couple of guys there refer to her as 'Old cougar'. She didn't like that too much. It was weird because W talked to me about it as if I had never questioned her and OM.
2) W said that people had complained that she wasn't "high maintenance" enough. She mentioned that she wasn't a girl who liked diamonds and junk, but she'd rather get a "blah blah" for her birthday. Two guesses what I got her for her birthday? It's not diamonds, and it's not junk.
3) We talked a lot about various people - Her pregnant lesbian friend, OM (yeah, I'm not sure if I should entertain that discussion either...) and family. Sometimes W talked like we were still together, sometimes like we weren't. It was pretty confusing.
4) On the way home she asked me if I thought a girl we both know was attractive. I told her I didn't think so (which was me being honest), but she said I didn't have to lie because it didn't matter anymore. She was pretty drunk at that point, so I don't know how much thought to put into any of it.
When I left W thanked me many times for dinner, and she gave me a kiss and a hug. I told her I'd be going out tomorrow, but I'd be by in the morning with her birthday things from me and D. She said she'd come with me when I go out, and we'd go pick up D together.
So, I guess nothing bad can come of she and I spending time together. We'll probably end up together for a good chunk of tomorrow, and we're going to her parents' on Sunday.
There's probably a lot more stuff that I forgot, but that's what I can empty out of my head right now.
