I don't know what I would do about the computer game-playing. Are you ok with it, as long as you know that it's just game playing? He's going to do what he wants to do, so if it bothers you, could you calmly tell him that it bugs you and then let it go for awhile. Maybe tell him that you've been really tired lately (blame it on the ADs?) and would enjoy moving the bedroom activities earlier in the night (coincidentally at the same time he's usually drawn to the computer)? I'm just brainstorming here. I hope you're doing well.
