Hi Grace and peace.

If you figure out how to rebuild the trust, let me know!

Yes, things are "not bad", so that must be good, right? Or at least "not bad".

I've been sick with a horrible cold and sinus infection the last week. I asked h to take the kids overnight tonight and he did, so I am solo. I needed some time alone anyway. He never asks to bring the kids to his place- it's always up to me to suggest it, if I want time alone in the house. Lately d2 has been waking up through the night or very early, so I just need some quiet time to rest. I do feel guilty about it though. I wish he would offer more often- we discussed this a couple of counseling sessions ago.

Sorry if I'm not exactly coherent tonight. My head and sinuses are making me feel awful.

Last edited by new_attitude; 02/23/08 02:26 AM.

me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08