Sounds like a plan. I have no doubt that your tank is about empty.
I'm sure your friends see you as a doormat, but until they have been through what you or any of us have been through, they really can't empathize. Many of us here had preconceived notions of what we would do if this happened to us, but here we are.
You absolutely deserve some happiness with someone loving, caring and devoted. NoCode attends a divorce support group (maybe he can comment on that). Have you looked into that in your area? I would find it helpful (just like this site) to get together with folks in similar sitchs if I was separated.
How is your D doing? Does she still spend time with your W?
