I think while S keeps poking their head out and retreating we need some detachment, but maybe a little less otherwise when H retreats it would hurt more. What about you asking him out to "show him off"?
S27 has a D 20months old. Before W went over his house before Tday, I had told her to come with me and she wouldn't. I calledS27 to call her and she went over his house. Before that it was July but at his IL's house. Before that was 9/06 after we got back from a cruise.
With the shape I'm getting in maybe I should try a 5k race. Just got home from rehab put 11 miles on the bike. My legs are probably in the best shape in years. Way to go in your races. first overall without any firsts, you'll get there!!
I think what H said about coming home from races if you wanted him to is very positive. He's showing he cares about what you feel or want. You might want him to do the same for you when you have a race if he's not home by then.
The check's in the mail for your dinner, LOL. Next time is your treat. For the time difference I'll just go at 9:00 you go at 6:00. I'll take the seat facing the front door, ROFL!!!
A little update, last weekend I went to a bowling lane I used to bowl at on Fridays and saw some people I knew. I was at D24's house and said I couldn't have dinner, I was meeting a friend for a couple of drinks. Got home and was getting dressed, D19, who's close to her mom, asked why I was in a hurry, told her I'm running late, supposed to meet someone at 9. Then I called my work cell from my new personal cell, which W and D don't know I have, Got out of the shower, D said my phone rang, she didn't recognize the # so she didn't answer. So I made a fake call to tell someone I was running late also and will be there in about 20min. So today I get a call from my best friend, whose W is my W's best friend (they met through us), She asked him if I was dating someone, she said she drove by the house at 5:30 AM and my car wasn't there!!! A little doubt in her mind I guess that I'm no longer sitting around waiting on her. I told my friend what business is it of hers, she wants a D am I supposed to be sitting at home the rest of my life?
Was going to "go out" tonight but D19 is staying home, I think she might tell W if I go out or not. I had parked my car elsewhere in the neighborhood last week. She's checking up on me!!! Maybe she still cares more than she thinks. A little jealousy maybe?
How will our long distance dinner date work out, will my W suspect, ROFL!!!
Mike
M 51 W 49 S26 S25 D24 D19 Married 27 yrs T over 30 S 7/12 D-bomb 9/26
