In all honesty Jack, I don't think she will stay in the house.

I will be very surprised if she does. Most likely she will go stay with a friend (female) for a while and then after a little bit that is when I suspect she will make the decision about moving in with om.

I have thought about it a lot, well since last night, and I have all weekend to think it through. I intend to stay this weekend at the house and see how it feels. She is out of town this weekend. It will be a tough decision, but I have this nagging feeling that it is time to stop reacting to her and to start doing things for me.