I know, I tend to do thing a little backwards at times.
She doesn't seem to be craving solitude that much, in fact quite the opposite, I think she hates being alone right now. Maybe when you are alone with your thoughts it causes you to think about things you don't want to. Like what the heck am I doing. But that is just a guess on my part.
She told me one time that she had no intention of moving in with this guy, "this about me finding myself and that would not be helpful" was her comment. But I think it is BS..
I don't know I have gone back and forth on this quite a bit, I am a little nervous about her reaction. But I can't change what she is going to do. I know that I don't like the situation I am living in now.
