Actually, Fyre, I was weighing your options and having trouble pointing you in any specific direction.

On the one hand, MLCer's crave their solitude and will go to the ends of the earth to get it. Moving back in will interrupt that, and may prolong the progression.

On the other hand, if she does decide to move in with OM, that certainly creates an interesting dynamic, now, doesn't it? It might bring them closer together...or...it might hasten the end of the relationship.

Most of the experienced LBSers on the board here will always advice against you moving out. But I haven't seen any advice or experiences regarding moving back in with the MLCer.

Me: 51
W: 50
M 24 yrs
EA: since Apr 06
S22, S26, S28
ILYBNILWY:Nov 07

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