Yes Grace....I knew you were being sarcastic!
Actually I feel like i am being pushy...he doesnt see it that way with the texting. He was saying I was being pushy by inviting him over for dinner one night, but it was something he said I could do if I wanted to. So I did. He said no thank you and I was ok with it. I dont know why he thinks I was pushing.

Thank you IMP. You know I mentioned to him about finding happiness once. I told him he would never be happy with anyone until he was happy with himself. He said, "but another person is what makes me happy" He said he didnt understand what I meant.

I beleive you are right. He has more to get past than just the OW.

I remember, patience.

Thanks for the reminder.

Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10