cat, I found you. Some scary stuff: she's nuts. Some VERY Postitive stuff: You're not! And you're detaching. KUDOS, for burning the letter. Keep detaching. Nothing nothing nothing she, he can say or do will change anything. It can only come back to haunt you if you listen too much now. detach from them both. You're a compassionate person, but you can only help them by detaching and letting them solve their problems themselves Keep up the detaching. Don't assume his reasons for doing anything. Dont' assume good reasons for bad.
Detach. Focus on yourself. No assumptions or expectations. Don't ask him (or her) about anything except things you need for the kids or daily chore stuff.
You're on the right track, you really are. This is the only way that works.
thinking of you
M45, W45,S15, D10, Bomb 10/3/06, Moved back in 11/6/06, finally ILY 9/07 last thread
