S$$t!! I know the feeling. I had to let him go after realising the whole "priority thing", the "frozen" attitude, lack of motivation to work on our M, etc, etc. That's how he left, "I don't think I am able to give it a try, should I leave?"... HE ASKED ME!!! And I said yes. I couldn't take it any longer. And it was hard for me. But you are in such better place. You have done so much work with yourself, you know excatly what you want, you are calm, not panicking... You'll be fine.
Let him go, he has a good excuse to change things around if you move to your hometown without "loosing face". That is very important to men. He won't have to dwell on how to do it. Give him the space and the time. There isn't much else you can do. As long as he feels he can't work on your M and you are prolonging this , it lessens your chances... Look at it as a step that will bring you closer, not further appart. The physical absence makes the "real" absence easier after a while for you and harder for him.
My D woke up, I'll be back, I hope I am not confusing you...
