Actually, The best thing to do is just go about your business.
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So, do I tell him that I would prefer no contact until he does...or what?
Sometimes, it is best to say nothing. Actions speak louder than words. Just do the things necessary to carry on a healthy coparenting relationship. It is way too early for him or you to be thinking about where things might go. He has more to get past than OW. He is the one who has to prove to you that he has grown up.
Backtracking, here is the key passage:
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Then again I dont think he will ever be truly happy.
You see if he is not happy with himself, how is he ever going to be happy with you.
Remember my word. Come on, you remember...patience.
