oh my! It sounds like you could use a nap - or a serious trip to the spa. Anything to clear your head from all this.

I cannot believe she is calling you for you to console her. She is delusional. Your H needs to dig himself out of this. You can't pull him out. Go do something to clear your mind and let H do this on his own. He needs to. Don't talk to OW. Or if you do - tell her to find a counselor, she needs one.

(((CAT)))

Me: 34
H: 39
M: 7 yrs
H A 12/05-8/07

If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley