Sorry to hear that your H would do and say those things in front of your D, its never ok to do that. I have talked, not shouted, in front of the kids before, and even that is not good. My W is the one that thinks its fine to show disrespect in front of the kids...
We have to learn to be strong, for our children at first, and then for our own selves. I understand a lot of how you feel, but you are doing great, despite the current setback. And it is not a sign of weakness to cry, you have to take time to mourn the things that are lost. Don't know if I'm sounding coherent, I'm really tired today.
Peace and love Brad
Me: 35 W: 34 S8 & S5 M: 11 IDLY: 08/2007
"Freedom's just another word for nothing left to lose" - Janis Joplin, Me and Bobby McGee
"Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it is about dancing in the rain!"
