Thanks guys...yes I have a good feeling that he will go back to her again. I really just think he will wait until he talks to the therapist though. That will just be someone else that will give him an excuse.

Really after this year I dont think I am in love with my H anymore. I do love him very much however. Sometimes I just wish I had the courage to end things with him myself. But Im afraid to do that. I dont want to be responsible for ending my marriage.

He is getting help. Starting Monday though. I hope it helps. Then again I dont think he will ever be truly happy. I think he feels like a failure.

I dont know what to do. I want to go dark again, but he wanted to work on things "if" he was able to get over OW. So, do I tell him that I would prefer no contact until he does...or what?

Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10