It's just weird after 2 years of feeling like he had a knife in his coat or placed a bomb under your car.....
Mine isn't flat out "nice" but he is calmer and not as mean...hands over the support payments on time and all. No fight. I think the divorce calms them down.....they don't feel the fight anymore, and the freedom must be nice!
Who cares. It just makes for a nicer life for us. I agree, the meanness was really awful. It caused a lot of anxiety in me, I would spend so much time and energy worrying, and it gave me stomach aches thinking about it.
