Hi
Thanks T, sh, UD, PH, Ng for your support and kind words

Mom still in Hosp
she is ok and will be home soon, but every hospital stay depletes her more

My brother and I talked today
mom told him H owes her money
He asked why H stopped paying our mom money we borrowed 1.5 for his MLC Car..he only owes her a few thousand,and he stopped payment in october when she first got sick( pretty thoughtful huh)

I have asked H to pay -he said he would take care of it
when H never payed its 6 months now
so I told mom to ask brother to talk to him as they trust eachother and work thogether
seems H lied to brother saying peace and I will tke care of it

I told brother to go easy on H as we are having problems(he didnt know we were Seperated)he knew we were struggling.
I told brother I was hoping we would be able to work it out so now Brother knows truth
he said he would not start problems for H but he wants mom to be paid
and
if things dont work out- or H messes up with me
brother wants to know( said he will quit)
Brother made me feel loved and protected
H didnt want brother to know we split..he needs him at work
well this has been a year we protected H from his double life
eventually they have to reep whats due
out of my hands
i always felt weird lying to brother about this this year
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow