Nate - I agree. As much as this hurts now, you have just dodged a MAJOR bullet!!!!! This woman is an unstable, unfaithful whack-job and you should be SO thankful you didn't go through with the marriage.

Trust me, you can do SO much better - IF you deal with your white-knight syndrome issues so you pick better next time.

(PS - sorry I was right about the affair.)

Ellie