J Now, as to what to DO about it, there are wildly differing views and approaches, for sure.
Would you like to elaborate on the choices? I am serious not sarcastic.
To my knowledge my husband had one "just happened" phsysical encounter with this person in the beginning of december. He has said he wants this marriage and has been going to counselling, he just seems to have difficulty with the zero contact with the OW (it all happened as she was a needy friend), up until a week ago they worked together everyday, they are now at separate locations.
I want to make our marriage work, he is claiming to try should I really be closing up on intimacy?
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009
