I have come over here to see if I can get some help. I have been at Marriage Builders for some time. Mostly reading and getting help from people thru e-mail.
I have been living in an in house separation since March '07. After many years of my neglecting the marriage and living a self centered life she decided to get a divorce and start an online EA in Feb. No contact was reached in May.
She still does not want to work on saving the marriage. She wants to continue to sleep in different rooms and live together for our 3 kids. She is in college working on her BS degree and has about 2 years till she graduates. She has talked about possibly filing then.
I have dropped my selfishness and but her and the kids before myself. There is still so much that I can continue to change in myself. Hopefully thru time she will see these changes and wish to reengage in the relationship. Until then I ask for your advice and prayers as we all work together to build stronger marriages.
Me 34 Wife 32 DD 11 DD 9 DS 7 Seperated since March '07
