Check mark in the Divorced column

[Lissie]

Well Javier was here AGAIN. That has been almost every other day.

He was off work today. And went to my parents house to shovel the snow. Then he went to the supermarket, and bought over 300 dollars of groceries, and stocked my fridge and cabinets.

Then he asked me if it was ok if he stayed for a bit, he did, at lunch with the kids.

He shoveled outside.

I love that he is seeing the kids, and is being so nice. But, um this is like overly nice.

I am not used to it, and it makes me think like he is engaged, or she is pregnant, and this is way of softening the blow.

Which really won't be such a blow maybe, b/c i have just accepted the fact, that, that might happen anyway.

I'm not complaining, I am grateful. He was so horrible for 2 years. The kids love him like this so much more.

Just weird