You have got to be kidding me. I am not trying to belittle what you are going thru, but this seems like one of those post that is made up to make people feel better about what is going on with them.

You are not married to this woman. She is treating you this way now and you are worried about working it out with her. Come on man. Either you are making this up or you need to realize how lucky you are to be out of this. She already ordered checks with another's man name on them. Feel lucky. There is another woman out there that will give you better sex than she did. that has to be what it was. Right?