Treese, My xh told me that it wasn't anything I had done or said that lured him away from me at all to the ow. He said it was all about him and what he needed to do make himself happy. One thing you have to remember, they can't see the forest for the trees and are so darn emotional that they don't know which end is up and will use any excuse to get us off their backs. They couldn't tell the truth if it bit them during the crisis. So, take what he says with a grain of salt and let it go. It's nothing personal towards you. I know, it can be very hurtful, but you are the closest to his heart, therefore, you are the one that gets the bs all of the time.
I do hope your daughter is feeling better soon. Gosh, that's got to be very uncomfortable for her.
Enjoy your weekend and keep your book handy for quick reading on the trip.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
