Soooo...I went to Social Services to get info on getting my H wages garnished. I was sitting in office speaking with case worker and this is how convo went..
Case worker: So how can I help you?
Me: well, Id like to get info regarding what my options are. My H left Oct 1st and it seems he has decided to not be responsible with money.
CW: Are all your children born in wedlock?
Me: Yes. He seems to have run off and be doing his own thing.
CW: Oh a mid life crisis I see?
Me: BINGO!
Ok so how come others can see this sooo clearly while the actual "midlifers" think they are soo unique and they are the ONLY ones who feel so misunderstood. For crying out loud if they would just read a book about it...or something!!!!! But NOOOO they would rather destroy their life and everyone elses..sigh
But see...thats where my H will fail...HE WILL NOT DESTROY MY FAMILY...nope. not while I'MMMMM at the wheel !!!
Ok had ta vent..carry on folks!
M 44 H 44 M 22 yrs D 20 D 16 D 13 Bomb 1 8/25/07 Bomb 2 9/30/07 Left 10/01/07 OW..yup
Me? I'm scrambling to save my family. My H is just scrambling.