Saffie ;\)
Thank you thank you thank you. (the butch voice was great by the way!)
I sort of figured out what happened...and I was devastated that I would not be hearing from IC anymore. He is so motivating and gives me a laugh when I need it most. I will try to look up the e-mail.

Thanks again!
J~

M 35
H 29
M 4 yrs T 9 yrs
D 3
S born 10/19/07
Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day
OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08
Status - still figuring this out