Originally Posted By: houndfan

Being a man has nothing to do with control, direction, or manipulation. Maybe Dom will drop in on this thread and offer more on this,


heh.. ok, since you asked \:\)

I think being "the man in a woman's life" means.. .whatever that woman wants it to mean.

as you said, [many women] what a man who creates a sense of safety and support.
But not all women do. and some women change their minds as to what they want in a man. Sometimes, multiple times in their lives!

best you can do, is just try to pay attention to what she wants now, i reckon.


My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle