New and alone

[addie]

Don't be too hard on yourself about the backslide. We all have them - it's part of the rollercoaster we are on. What your H said to you is very typical WAS talk.

You must try to detach-don't cry, plead, lay the guilt trip. It won't help your sitch AT ALL and WILL push him further away. (I have to remind myself of all this today because I'm having a terrible couple of days).

Keep up the baking. I had same sitch with H where he refused to try anything but lately he's been more open to trying. Don't pressure and do it very casually.