I agree that it is okay to be in a bad mood. we can't always be chipper all the time, we can have bad days, but we also shouldn't take it out on other people. He could have felt that you were doing that. So that was definitely a good idea to be more direct about your having a bad day and just need some quiet time, or whatever you need so that your not in a bad mood TOWARDS him. and maybe you weren't, but it sounds like he probably took it personal himself.
His trunk comments sure sound like he's getting suspicious of you. My H did the same thing. even told a friend during our sitch that he thought I was seeing a guy from church. ya, that's a christian thing to do. NOT.
anyways, maybe sometime in the near future, it would be good to ask H if he's thought about what he wants out of your R right now.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
