I am so confused, not sure what hand I am playing

[Snow White]

I kind of thought that would be the repsonse I get. What am I supposed to be doing, is it not ok if I am interested in it as well, I am doing it for myself and him. I want to feel closer and the connection? I want him to look at me the way he does when we are interacting this way(either the flirting or the LM) instead of arguing. Or am I hurting progress?