You are NOT crazy. Anyone in your position would have folded a long time ago. Your H can be a real jerk. We've talked to you before about his abusive, alchoholic personality. I'm not sure what advice to give you other than to stand tall, YOU are in the right place, HE is in LA LA LAND! It's time to stand up to him again, put him in his place. You do not have to settle for anything less than a secure, polite, respectful, hard working, supportive, loyal, and yes STRONG man. His attitude is weak, demeaning, and selfish. You've got it right, don't second guess yourself becuase YOU are on the solid ground.
I don't have any more time right now but I'll check in on you later.
Chin up lady!! Love,
COG
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