Out of the Blue?

[kturnernc]

Thanks for the words Kerry. I do think that the timing of her actions was panic and probably the advice of all her 'supportive' friends.

Anyway, the update... This morning the wife came to pick up the kids early. Like almost 45 minutes early, so I was not ready for her. I had not showered and once I let her in I ran to get a shower and told her to feel free to grab a brownie i had made last night. Anyway, after she left, I realized that she was acting a bit nervous and left quickly. I also realized that I had left a book on the table and that it was moved from where i had left it. The book was Light Her Fire, about how to increase her desire for you. I hope that leaving the book out (which was an accident) did not make us back slide any.

Should I be worried about this? Or am I just being paranoid?

Oh, by the way, I have a therapist appointment today, which helped me in the beginning. She is still agreeing to meet jointly to work on things, but has made no move to contact him at all. I really don't want to keep pushing her on this because of her past. In a nutshell, she went to therapy in the past and has been on antidepressants for years. Currently I think she has stopped taking them, maybe for as long as the past 6 months or more. So everytime that we talk about this, she accuses me of thinking or suggesting she is the crazy one and needs help. So it is a sensitive subject.

PS: I do think she needs to see a therapist because she does need help.