H pulled a good one on me today. He has been having his check deposited into our joint account and then has a set amount put or I would deposit it for him into his account. However, today he had almost 3 times the normal amount put into his account. I can probably cover all the bills (I haven't ran the numbers yet). H says that he wants us to be "friends" for the boys sake but this is something that I wouldn't do to a friend. I wouldn't put less money into a account for them without first advising them that it was going to happen.
So, I called H. He didn't answer. I called SIL and vented. By the time H called me back I just said 'Never mind I got it taken care of. Thanks for calling me back.' I so wanted to chew his head off and I bet he fully expected me to. But, I didn't. I didn't want to give him the satisfaction.
I'm seeing an L today. I don't know how much more of H's crap I can take.
He wants his boat, 1969 corvette (that he and S15 were supposed to rebuild), 4 wheelers, tools and his personal stuff. S15 was upset about him wanting the 4 wheelers and tools. S15 uses the 4 wheeler H doesn't. And H's tools are the envy of any man (you should see his shop). S15 said now I have to go to ___ (H's OW lives 1 1/2 hrs away) to use a saw! S15 said I guess I will have to buy my own 4 wheeler and tools since you won't be able to afford it and Dad is taking them. I tried to explain that these are his things that he is entitled to have and that we would eventually have our own tools. S15 is still unhappy with H on this. I asked him to not say anything to H and just enjoy his dinner with H on Friday since it's been over 2 weeks since he has seen him.
Why do they have to do this to us and our children?
