She can only do to you and your feelings what you allow her to do.
exactly...interesting she told you in my mind. What reaction did she expect from you? Probably the one you gave her. It's clear she is confused. So, discussing, arguing, whatever with her seems very counter-productive. No sense in trying to reason with the WA while they are being irrational.
I'd do the best I could to just steer clear of that issue. Sounds like you are pushing the envelope on her. Also, sounds a bit controlling, you go do this and we will do this. I am not trying to be ugly...I just don't feel that is what you really want. Especially after your post on your choice of loving her regardless.
Remember it's just a day...you'll feel different tomorrow and she will too...make the most of it.
