Thanks. I will check that out. Can I ask, in your situation, who was the one who wanted to leave and who wanted to fix things? Do you really think a weekend and followup in a program like this can be beneficial when there's so much resentment built up? My husband is much more resentful of the fact that we haven't had another baby than even he realized, and I don't know if he'll be able to get past that. The thing he doesn't realize is that the longer he holds onto that anger, the less likely he makes it that we'll ever get to that point where we'll have the next baby. I feel so unappreciated and undervalued right now, it's really sick. I know I deserve more and better than this.
Is the Retrouvaille weekend extremely religious-themed? I am Catholic, but we're not hard-core religious people. I think anything with really pushy overtones could turn us both off.
Thanks for taking the time to write back. I'm so sad and frustrated right now because I feel like we had this second chance and because we didn't know exactly how to make the most of it, we're going to lose it altogether.
