I am so confused, not sure what hand I am playing

[Snow White]

Returned home last night. Out of curiousity clicked redial on the phones, 2 were to OW cell phone one with call blocking on(she still will not pick up). When H came home I asked him why I came back, he said I said in the text - the text was come home and we can try to make this work. I used the quote that JAK had mentioned. He said ok but it was really less than convincing. I asked about the calls and he said he is just trying to get an answer as to what went down at work and what was said that he wants to hear it from her. A few days previous he was insistant he needed to go to her house to discuss, last night he said he will talk to her at work when her staff is not around he just wants to speak to her in person to see if she is telling the truth. Then we went on to normal talk, when we don't talk about her everything seems great. I mentioned the different pieces of lingerie I had recently bought(while I thought this was over and I was being really green grass) and asked him which he liked best. He said I don't know bring them out here and show me. So I grabbed a bunch, plus my catholic shcool girl kilt(which I again fit into) and he thought i should try on the kilt just to show him, not as exciting as you might think!! We laughed. So he picked his fave and asked if I could wear it last night. I said I thought you were sick? Yes but still interested. So I did and we did and had a great time. Is this cake-eating or is this me getting along really well with my husband in a way that we can connect in the midst of all the confusion and turmoil that is going on around us?