I'm so sorry to hear this. It is so strange how they live in such a fantasy world. Not just the fantasy of the playing house with the OW, but how they completely ignore their responsibilities to their kids. I think it's the ostrich-head-in-the-sand syndrome. It's like they think---if I ignore my wife, my kids, and all my former responsibilities, maybe they'll cease to exist.
Hope everything goes well for you. Glad you have someone to go with you.
Me:40, xH:41 M:19 T:21 D14, S10, D6 IDLYA bomb:12/22/06 OW bomb (21 yr. old employee):12/23/06 H move out 2/07, OW move in 5/07 D papers served 6/07 D final Nov. 26, 08 :-(
