Frank....I love your C. I think there is good advice. Jack 3 beans has good advice and so does saffie et al:

-DO take the high road
-DO balance reality with your hope: avoid any conversation with W that can be interpreted wrongly or used against you. MY L...told me that even lines like "you'll get yours" or "you'll see what happens" can be used destructively against you. DO be positive in your conversations with W. Although you don't have to handle her with D attitude, you should still protect yourself since we can't control other people
-Do say that prayer... I like it
-DO expect the unexpected IF there is a possibility of her being coached. I find her last conversation with you bothersome. Remember..my W is totally computer illiterate, yet, she did a pretty good 'rifling' thru my PC a few weeks ago, or, someone else did

Balance. Balance. Maintain the better attitude I hear.
FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;