I am being the good dad and waiting for the boys to get home. I love my boys so much! She went to bed, no kisses or hugs but thats ok I can still feel and taste the one from lunch time.
I am goin to step back a bit now. She already asked me if I wanted to go skiing with the boys tomorrow. We are gettin snow tonight. It's not a date but it's a family thing that we all love to do together. I would love to think that this is all going to work out. PMA!!!!! Think as if!!!!
I am working hard. She is trying to push my buttons by being on the phone all the time. I hate that but I am being a good boy. Smiling and PMA all over the place. I can't wait to find out when she is going to see the MC and I can't wait to see my Psyhc.
You are dead on: "quite often, they're people who are divorced, divorcing, single, or have troubled relationships".
I was upset last night because i had to come running home from my GAL because my S12 would have been home alone at 11PM after he was out with some of his Lax friends/parents for pizza. I got home just before him. She texted me to say are you home and is S12 home yet. I texted back to ask her to call me. She said she could not because she was dancing with her girl friend (fat ugly India Single Girl). 15 minutes later she called so drunk she could hardly speak. I asked her if she was ok and she said/ sleered FIIINNNEEEE! At that piont I back slide and asked her where she was because I was worried and there was black ice everywhere and i saw two cars off the road on my way home. She said very evasively I am in WC on Passiac Ave. I said where? and she reluctantly named the place.
Do you think she doesn't want to tell me where she is because she doesn't want me to come there and meet other dysfunsional friends or do you think the possible OM was there or she was just trying to push my buttons. BTW: this is the second time she came home within minutes after I asked her where she was because i was so worried about her. I think she either was not where she said she was or didn't want me to show up. I know, I know, stop worring about her. Well sorry I can't!
A little bummed this morn and worried about my wife's drinking. My S12 even mentioned something about it. When she came home i acted like I was a sleep because when she gets drunk she gets depressed and wants to fight (that's why I moved out of the bed room) so she found that my s12 was sleeping in my bed after after we watched tv he fell asleep. She had a fit for some odd reason. Never has this happened before but she did get real made one day last week if you will recall when my son came to sit next to me in chair to watch TV. I wonder what that is all about.
I am hurting a little this morning but I am going to button my lip, smile and act as if life was never better. No questions asked.
She just got up and looks like Sh**. Very interested in where I was last night and all the detials, I was very evasive and did not ask one question about her. She is on the phone already.
I am so sorry about your sitch, this is heading downhill fast. It may take some time, but she is going to crash BIG TIME. It took me 5 months to get here, you are still in the first inning.
You need to make sure that she NEVER drives drunk with your boys. You may consider discussing this sitch with a police officer. A DWI may be just what she needs to shock her out of this situation.
This is not good.
Focus on yourself... have fun... get out of the house.
We are here for you!
Things really picked up last night... I got home at 2:30.
It's not as bad as it sounds. It's two steps forward and one back. No fun man. We are sitting here having pizza together now. We had a long talk about last night. She said she just did not want me showing up and embarrasing her infront of her MLC friends. I hope we have a mellow night but then again she just popped her first beer (that I know of)
I really feel very bad for her and wnat is going on inside her little MLC head but I know I can not help her. She must either wake up seek intense help.
