"Question of the night.....YR, SF, Snodderly,DH, whoever wants to answer...Did your H's ever tell you it has nothing to do with OW, that you will just have to accept it and move on..that he doesn't feel like hugging you"

No, I do not remember H ever saying this at all. What was said in the beginiing is that this affair had nothing to do with me. And yes, it did get to a point when they do stop being close to you i.e. being intimate, touching, etc.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19