Peace,
Your description of your MLC'er was gut wrenching and so descriptive that I could picture your H in my mind. It tears me apart what these guys do to themselves and family.

"Hiding shame" is something my ex could never do. Now it is a part of him. He seems to forget that he is now an adulterer who has abandoned his family.

So sad, but I know we have light ahead of us, with or without our spouses.

Stay strong

God bless....

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11