I am so sorry...it seems like so much burden has been dumped on you. I know you see your H is a damaged man...it is so sad that he can't take more of an active role with you and your children...especialy when you have other things that need your attention. To us who are rational, this is a no-brainer...why is it so difficult for MLCers to see the pain and devastation they cause...if not now, at least before it is too late.
You did a great job at not reacting to your H being selfish. Our H's have such a long way to go...we just need to keep moving on.
I hope your mother gets better soon. You are strong and can handle whatever life has to throw at you...We all need to be reminded of that from time to time.
