I think I gave her a few things to think about. I tried to explain that things simply can't work the way she wants. She can't have a job, be there for the kids and not take money from me. She says that she wants to be independent and get a job, but she wants to "be there for the kids". She asks me where the lawyer is in the process but then tell me to slow down when I say that we can move forward with the divorce if she wants to date and I'll move out.
I can handle her not loving me anymore. I can't handle crazy irrational people.