Good job tonight Treese, but isn't oh so hard??

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Question of the night.....YR, SF, Snodderly,DH, whoever wants to answer...Did your H's ever tell you it has nothing to do with OW, that you will just have to accept it and move on..that he doesn't feel like hugging you?


My H has said these same words to me many many times. That she has done nothing wrong. That she is not the issue here.

Well maybe she is not THE issue, but she is still AN issue.

We were having sex (ALOT) the first 6-7 months since the bomb. Then it stopped and there has been no physical contact what so ever since. He doesn't even get close enough to me to touch him.


M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!