Meredith - your 5 years..

[cagzmom]

I will warn you, when my H did go ahead and file, I was very angry at myself for letting him have control yet again. BUT, that was fleeting and I don't feel that way now. I am proud of myself for not reacting for the wrong reasons. In the end, divorce is a shame and I can look back and know that I did what I could to prevent it.

Despite what everyone told me to do, I sat. And, I don't reget it a bit.

Ok so I shouldn't respond because you shouldnt be on here!!
But since you were so sweet to write.. giggle giggle.

Ok here is the scoop.... that was the one of the reasons one of my friends told me TO file. TO "Beat him to the punch..." and for ME (this is so dang individual really) That would be THE WRONG reason. BECAUSE i would be trying to "show him or prove to him..." AND THAT is not a good reason.

So again - option 3 it is!! =)